The last couple of months have been so crazy for us! When we decided to start moving forward with DEIVF the first thing we needed to do was get our financing in place. We applied for a home equity loan to cover the expense, however Nates ex was on the house so that was not an easy task. We ended up going through a few months of our attorneys battling before it was settled. What started out as a home equity loan ended up in us deciding the best option for us would be to sale the house.
We had already been looking around for a new house and had decided to build. We found our builder and put money down on the house. It takes them about 6 months to complete the house so we were wanting to wait to sale the house, but the terms of the settlement were that we had to have her name off the house either by sale or refinance within 3 months so we listed our house. We had one family come look and they put in an offer immediately for our listed price! Umm… holy crap! I was freaking out when it all happened because at the time I was pregnant and couldn’t really help pack or move anything. Nate pretty much did it all. We packed everything we wouldn’t need into a storage unit. During the moving process is when I miscarried. So not only was I emotional over the loss, but packing away our memories was so hard on me. I cried the whole day we were officially moved out!
Fast forward a few weeks later and we are all moved in with my mom and step dad for a few months! We were a bit nervous because our dogs can be crazy and they had never lived anywhere else, but the little stinkers have surprised us and they are behaving better at my moms’ then they were at our house! My mom likes to take them for walks and give them treats so they are basking in the attention!
I can’t wait to be able to decorate the new house. I love interior design so this is going to be fun. Nate is probably going to want to kill me and our wallets are going to be hurting, but we will have a beautiful new home that’s all ours. 6 years ago I never would have imagined I would be able to be living comfortably in a house that I own. Look forward to lots of progress pictures and interior design stuff. I am so excited!!!
The last few months have been crazy but it has really opened my eyes to how many blessings I have in my life. Our families have both stepped in and helped us pack our house and gave us a place to temporarily live. We have good enough friends who have helped us move our whole house. Our cute dogs have adjusted well and Nate and I feel right at home at my mom’s. We both have good, steady jobs that have helped this all become reality. Hard work really does pay off! For the most part life is really good and I feel so blessed to live the life I do.
Hi my name is Whitney and I'm a mom to 2 adorable boys. Here you'll find our story of infertility, adoption, grief, and hope. I'm an open book so you'll never know what I'll post next!